A little bit of my story
I’ve been dedicated to spiritual studies most of my life. Learning how to hone my clairvoyant skills over the last several years at the Boulder Psychic Institute has been an exciting exploration into what is possible in terms of how we communicate with each other on a spirit-to-spirit level.
I continue to find more and more proof that the world is more magical and mysterious than we really understand. Psychic work has allowed me to lean into the powerful ways human consciousness operates. The power of visual meditations and learning how to be fully present in my body has proven to be extremely transformative in my own life.
My cultural and spiritual background is a whole mish-mash of traditions. I grew up in the Christian church, I’m very familiar with Mormon culture (I’m from Idaho and my mom’s side of the family is all LDS), and am married into a Jewish family. I’m very active in the Queer community and have a fairy non-traditional polyamorous marriage. (I say “fairly” because other than the non-monogamous part we’re a pretty regular suburb-dwelling family).
When I’m not traversing the astral, I’m lovin’ on my husband and kids, my girlfriend in Denver, and my community. I love cooking, crafting, kickboxing, hiking, writing, and running Bconnected Colorado (my nonprofit for Bi/Queer folks).
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My Writing
If you’d like to get to know me through my writing, check out some of the articles and advice columns I’ve written for the BPI listed below. I’ve spoken to numerous issues from readers and written about my own observations on personal growth.
When you’re in a painful or confusing situation, learning to validate yourself and acknowledge where you’re at is the first step toward finding a solution.
Reframe Your Personal History to Rewire Your Future
It’s funny how the simplest yet profoundly life-changing concepts can be so difficult to implement.
Perception is one of those concepts that can make or break your life. Reframe your personal history—sounds easy, right? However, we tend to stay stuck to our old stories and miss opportunities to update the narrative. And here’s the real kicker—you can change your perception in an instant.
Is It A Spirit Guide Or A Random Entity?
It’s common for people to be in awe of a spirit guide—remember that they’re beings just like the rest of us. They’re all varying in their own levels of consciousness and awareness. We recommend that YOU find your expert being—not the other way around.
Healing your internal wounds triggered by current events gives you space to move out of resistance and into positive change. AND when you’re putting out a peaceful high vibe, people around you will start to match your energetic signature—creating a ripple effect.
Dear Love Psychic: Can My Love Save Him?
“I definitely don’t want to date this Dude, but I care about him, have love for him, and feel that he has potential. If he could know what true love is and open his heart, he could get on a better path in life and do great things.”
“Is A Psychic Reading Just As Good Over The Phone As In Person?!”
There are numerous benefits of doing readings, healings, or classes over the phone. Often people think that there will be a “more powerful connection” if we’re in the same room with you. This isn’t how it works—we see into you.
Creating A Healing Container, Part Three
If you find yourself giving emotional support, even when you don’t want to, here are some key elements to establishing a defined healing space for yourself.
Being A Healthy Healer, Part Two
Healers witness a lot of suffering and hold space for people’s problems which can be draining over time. Here are five steps to prevent healer burnout.
Are you taking inventory around why you help people and how you’re going about it? It may be time to examine some sobering questions around you why.
Dear Love Psychic: I Got Ghosted. Now What?
“As best as I can tell, I am entirely blocked from communicating with him. It has been 11 days. I’m devastated. Past physiological and emotional symptoms of abandonment are making me anxious and ill.”
Waiting For Love And Connection
If you’re having trouble finding and or forming a connection with someone that feels satisfying, there’s usually an unproductive feedback loop that is occurring.
Dear Love Psychic: Karma And Romance
“Is karma created with every romantic relationship?”
Kinda. Here are some steps for avoiding karma in relationships.
Dear Love Psychic: My Soulmate Forgot To Be With Me
“Why am I stuck on this person who I consider my soulmate but we’re not together?” Soulmate theory sets relationships up with sky-high expectations. It takes away choice and reasonable relationship agreements.
Making Up With Yourself After A Rough Patch
After a rocky period with a partner, I caught myself thinking, “I need them to rebuild my trust.” It didn’t take me long to realize that all I can control is myself. I needed to make up with ME. Yes—even if things happened that were totally lame and not always my fault.
Dear Love Psychic: Polyamory And Jealousy
“What is the most effective way to deal with jealousy in a polyamorous relationship?” Jealousy is a tricky thing. It’s an umbrella emotion covering one or several other emotions—so you need to get to the bottom of what the jealousy represents.
Waiting To Heal: Steps For Navigating The Healing Process
Started your healing journey but haven’t started feeling the results yet? Don’t fret! Here are a few steps to help you navigate your healing journey with ease.
Not feelin’ your gratitude journal right now? Is it feeling like a chore or an obligation? Try this 2-step practice instead.
Dear Love Psychic: What Is The Status Of My Relationship?
“Am I single or in a relationship with the person I’m seeing?? It seems to fluctuate hourly.” Start creating your own options for what you want the relationship to be versus sifting through what you think are your only options.
Dear Love Psychic: How Do I Support A Partner Who Is Struggling?
Have you ever been in a situation where you were being told that you need to change the way you’re approaching your own problem? This would be invalidating, and it would most likely make you feel like the way you are, and the way you cope with your life is wrong.
Lessons In Nature: Trying Too Hard To Be Psychic
You’ll get what you need exactly when you need it. Sometimes your intention has to travel all the way through Middle Earth—but it will come to you one way or another.
Are Your Love Associations Tanking Your Dating Life?
If we acknowledged love as a unique and sacred entity that is infinite and treated the other parts of a relationship as something chosen off of an a-la-carte menu—we might be able to custom-build something new and beautiful with another human.